Reflections upon a SLOW life

Tina Saxena
4 min readAug 12, 2023

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Of late I have been intentionally slowing down more and more in order to savour every moment of my life. I am done and dusted with the rat race and the distractions which make my life a blur!

This conscious decision has led me to enjoy each moment, live more mindfully and see and experience the vibrance and magic of life.

What is a slow life?

A slow life is a very deliberately designed lifestyle characterized by a very intentional, deliberate and mindful approach to living. It is where you prioritize simplicity, balance, and depth rather than superficiality and allow for a considerably reduced pace of activity.

It is a very conscious choice to step away from the fast-paced and often hectic nature of modern life in favor of a more relaxed and intentional way of being.

Here are a few aspects that I have found in my own journey which you might wish to consider:

Simplicity: Choosing to live with fewer material possessions. Prioritizing your values and focusing on what truly matters. This can involve decluttering, downsizing, and minimizing consumerism, though it may not always be a minimalist lifestyle in the strict sense. I am working on this.

Mindfulness: Being present and fully engaged in each moment, appreciating the small things, and cultivating a powerful sense of gratitude for everyday experiences. I cannot stress the significance of this enough; it has far-reaching benefits for our well-being!

Connection: Prioritizing meaningful relationships and spending quality time with loved ones. Building deeper connections within your community as you go along. Having a service-oriented heart. I have found that relationships are the roots that hold us firm in life!

Nature: Spending time in nature, enjoying outdoor activities like walking, hiking, gardening, or simply taking in natural surroundings to promote relaxation and well-being. Observing and appreciating what you see and cultivating a sense of awe and wonder for it all. This makes my life truly MAGICAL!

Photo ‘Dusk in the Himalayas’ Tina Saxena

Healthy Lifestyle: Embracing a balanced and healthy lifestyle, including nourishing foods, regular exercise, and sufficient sleep, to support physical and mental well-being. Taking it one step at a time. Accepting where you are without guilt or stress.

Creativity and Hobbies: Intentionally pursuing creative interests and hobbies that bring joy and a sense of accomplishment. Arts and crafts, music, writing, or any activity that fosters personal expression is time well spent! I would say, it is the best use of our time.

Mindful Consumption: Making conscious and deliberate choices about what you consume and how you consume can contribute to a more peaceful and focused mindset. Whether it is food, media, or information, being selective about the choices and content you engage with is important for your personal journey.

Slower Work Pace: Find ways to simplify work and reduce unnecessary stress. This involves prioritizing goals and tasks, setting boundaries, delegating, and exploring alternative work arrangements that allow for a better work-life balance.

Reflection and Self-Care: Taking time for yourself, for introspection, self-care, and personal growth is essential. Engaging in practices like meditation, journaling, yoga, etc. can help foster a deeper understanding of oneself.

Embracing things as they are: Accepting what is without wanting to control everything, allowing for moments of doing nothing, and cultivating stillness can spark creativity and encourage a deeper connection with oneself.

Though a part of a traditional way of living, especially in Eastern cultures, the slow life philosophy of today is a response to the rapid pace and constant demands of modern society which have created undue stress on us. It encourages individuals to savor life’s moments, prioritize well-being, and find contentment and joy in simplicity.

It helps us realize that we do need a lot of material things to be joyful, and ticking off endless To-Do lists or accomplishing massive and purposeful goals isn’t always everyone’s cup of tea. The concept of a slow life may be interpreted very differently by people, and the specific practices and choices will vary based on individual preferences and circumstances. However, slowing down is a certain harbinger of peace, contentment, and joy.

As a mindfulness practitioner and life-design coach, I help clients focus on well-being and personal growth and make life choices that prioritize their mental and emotional health. This leads to personal freedom and independence allowing the person to blossom and manifest the life they deserve. Connect with me if you are seeking to go forward on your journey.

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Tina Saxena
Tina Saxena

Written by Tina Saxena

On the joyful, slow and leisurely track, exploring life in its myriads of facets and nuances, dipping into the latest human psychology and ancient scriptures!

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