Cultivating Inner and Outer Peace: Why Both Matter

Tina Saxena
6 min readDec 7, 2023

Both inner peace and the external environment are important for well-being. Surroundings impact flourishing.

“Inner peace comes from within, while the environment shapes us from outside. Seeking both is essential.”

We all aspire to have more peace, calm, and joy in our lives. Whether it is relieving stress, feeling grounded, or spreading good vibes to others, inner tranquillity seems to provide a special kind of life fuel.

But in the quest for spiritual growth and enlightenment, it can be tempting to focus solely on the inner journey — assuming naively that external factors will have less impact once our mindset shifts. We can tell ourselves the myth, “A peaceful mind can survive anything. I don’t need perfect conditions to find happiness!” which may work for highly illuminated sages but is impractical for most of us.

It is true that inner peace provides a centred foundation, however, we cannot ignore how profoundly our environment also shapes us. Our surroundings if toxic can drain our energy and undermine the inner reserves we have carefully built.

Spiritual teacher Eckhart Tolle puts it thus, “Your outer world is a reflection of your inner world. What goes on inside of you is reflected outside of you.”

So why is cultivating both inner and outer peace vital for lasting well-being? Let us dive deeper into their connected dynamic.

Inner Peace: The Stable Core

When life feels chaotic and reactive, turning inward provides stability. By silencing our anxious thoughts through continuous spiritual practices, be it meditation, journaling, walking in nature or more, we realign with our essence. Our turbulent emotions settle into calm. We regain perspective to know how to consciously respond instead of instantly reacting. We are rooted in something bigger than storms of feeling created by temporary conditions.

“When we connect to inner stillness, we find wisdom within that helps us navigate storms or sunshine outside.”

Cultivating inner peace develops spiritual muscles to avoid getting tossed about by external circumstances. Our centred core is always there, guiding us home. We can tap into it amidst joy and sorrow, stability and change. This inner tranquillity lets us weather outer storms from a place of empowered resilience rather than helpless reactivity. We still feel the full range of human emotions, but we witness negative ones with compassion before they consume us.

So yes, inner work definitely helps develop an anchored mindset to rely on regardless of what happens externally, but, sigh, it doesn’t make us immune, as I can recount from personal experience.

Toxic Environments Drain Inner Reserves

Here is the catch, no matter how well-insulated you are, the surrounding negativity still seeps in in the long term, demanding massive energy to repel its erosion of our inner light. Irrespective of how internally developed you may be, if you constantly swim in toxicity, it still gets to you.

Even grounded, evolved beings can grow depleted by chronically unhealthy environments. Inner peace makes us more resilient but not invincible against continual assaults to the psyche.

Imagine having to constantly reaffirm that the sky is blue while everyone else insists that it is red. Despite your unshakable clarity, it takes relentless mental effort to deny their consensus day and night. You dig deep to hold your truth stable, but darn, it gets tiring and taxing!

That is what toxic environments gradually do. They force us to pull from spiritual reserves more often than we can replenish them and to what end? Our inner light starts to dim, not from a lack of inner practices but from relentless outer erosion. As they say, even a drop can sculpt rock over a period of time!

Nutritionist Adelle Davis says, “It is easy to get enough vitamins and minerals within, it is the toxins from without that are dangerous.” The same applies to spiritual health. Enough inner connection provides nutrients — but outer toxicity saps them.

Healthy Soil Allows Roots to Flourish

Fortunately, the reverse also remains true, healthy outer conditions create space for inner peace to brightly blossom! A supportive context is not only less draining, it actively provides nutrients for our whole being to thrive.

Think about a vibrant garden. Rich, fertile soil, ample air and sunlight, properly regulated temperature and moisture levels are all external factors that allow the plants to flourish. If the same are sowed in poor, depleted earth with insufficient nourishment from surroundings, they will not thrive fully.

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Our spirit works in a similar manner. Inner practices plant the seeds of peace and calm, but they grow exponentially faster when external conditions provide space for full flowering. Similarly, when we are surrounded by a harmonious environment and atmosphere, we can flourish. When those we interact with reflect back positivity, it gets mirrored internally as well. Thus, while inner peace offers refuge from difficult environments, healthy environments actively cultivate more abundant inner peace — not just survival, but revival.

Lord Buddha taught, “Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without.” This wisdom is a basis to start seeking. However, one of the reasons monks and hermits retreat to beautiful and quiet environs is that silence helps immensely in supporting their journeys.

“An empowering context isn’t just about keeping our heads above water. It actively provides the rich, nourishing ‘soil, sun and rain’ that allows seeds of human potential to grow into a blossoming, thriving garden.” — Dr. Bruce Lipton

Cellular Biologist, Dr. Bruce Lipton’s work on environmental signals and gene expression is well known. His research explores how cells thrive or deteriorate based on external environmental factors, providing a microcosm example of how human well-being is shaped by environmental conditions. I highly recommend his book, ‘The Biology of Belief.’

“Cells thrive in a healthy, life-affirming environment and degenerate in a toxic, life-denying environment. When we shift internal or external environments from toxic to healthy, cells — and people — can shift from barely surviving to abundantly flourishing.” — Dr. Bruce Lipton

The Middle Way Between Extremes

Does this mean we should focus solely on shaping our environment since external conditions impact internal states so much? Of course not! As we have explored, inner calm remains vital as the stable baseline to start orienting from and the optimal path lies between these extremes, i.e. actively fostering both inner peace and outer peace. Developing inner anchoring with a conscious outer influence.

This integrative approach is called the Middle Way for good reason! Staying balanced between internal and external factors leads to sustainable well-being. Most of us cannot simply meditate in blissful inner realms while ignoring worldly context which we are a part of, nor can we try controlling all outer variables while our own mind spins anxiously or is caught up in endless chatter and turmoil.

The spiritual journey is not meant to bypass normal human life but to help us gracefully enjoy it, to revel in it, to dance with it. We need grounded inner refuge and a supportive outer community to thrive.

So the best way is to keep nurturing inner calm through spiritual connection and actively seek to create and nurture in creating harmony in the world around you. Raise the collective vibe through compassionate contribution. Support more conscious communication, empowering cultures and evolved systems.

“The difference between a life of coping versus thriving comes down to the contextual ‘growing conditions’ we inhabit. Upgrade toxic environments to empowering ecosystems, and coping mechanisms become thriving superpowers.” — Dr. Bruce Lipton

When it comes to cultivating peace, neither inner work nor outer change is sufficient alone. We need to develop equilibrium between what we can control and influence. Therefore, Keep planting and nurturing seeds of peace within even as you strive to grow more peaceful environments around you. Strive to maintain inner anchoring while exerting outward realignment.

As we collectively shift both internal and external landscapes from chaos to calm, the future will begin to thrive and bloom, inside and out!

As a mindfulness practitioner and life-design coach, I help clients focus on well-being and personal growth and make life choices that prioritize their mental and emotional health. This leads to personal freedom and independence allowing the person to blossom and manifest the life they deserve. Connect with me if you are seeking to go forward on your journey.

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Tina Saxena

On the joyful, slow and leisurely track, exploring life in its myriads of facets and nuances, dipping into the latest human psychology and ancient scriptures!